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The Mother's Day in 2007，At the time of school，But her daughter Fang Juan still did not go home。Yang Jianfen is planning to go out for finding，The door is open，Daughter holds a large bunch of roses and appears in front of it: & ldquo; Mom，Happy Mother's Day! & rdquo;

Even if the child has left 4 years，This is still the picture that Yang Jianfen's mind is always lingering。

& ldquo; 5 & middot; 12 & rdquo; after the earthquake，Yang Jianfen, who is over half a year old, always feels that his memory is poor，Frequently losing the west，Forgot words。But every bit of daughter's death，It seems to happen yesterday，Details are vivid，Even the specific date of some incidents，She still remembers very clear。

Yang Jianfen said，She and her husband have devoted all their efforts and love to this child。When the daughter is very young，They let her learn dance。

& ldquo; My daughter is 16 years old for a while，Person more than 170cm，The out of place，Long hair quickly touch the ground; she is also a leader in learning，From small to large, it has always been the top of the class，And has always been a student cadre。& rdquo; Yang Jianfen said。

Yang Jianfen once thought about letting her daughter go to High School in Mianyang City，But because the grades are too good，The Children's Beichuan Middle School does not agree to let her transfer to school。

On the day of the earthquake，Yang Jianfen was rescued by the soldiers from home。Early morning May 13，Her body has just recovered，Just rush to Beichuan Middle School to find a daughter who is in high school。Due to work injury due to feet，On the way to Beichuan Middle School，Yang Jianfen found a rough stick as a crutch。Along the way，She constantly imagines all kinds of possibilities that her daughter can survive，Finally, she thought: Daughter is so brave，It will definitely jump from the teaching building to the soft lawn to escape!

That day，Beichuan heavy rain。When arriving at Beichuan Middle School，The officers and men of the disaster relief did not let Yang Jianfen enter the scene。Subsequent，She went to Anchang and Mianyang Hospital to find her daughter，But I didn't find it。By May 16，Yang Jianfen returns to Beichuan Middle School again，I still didn't find Bet365 app download my daughter。But until then，She still believes，My daughter is still alive。

That day，The neighbor said to her，I found your daughter。When I hear this sentence，Yang Jianfen excitedly thought that her daughter had escaped。But when she led her to see her daughter,，Neighbors have repeatedly told her not to cry there。Yang Jianfen promised: & ldquo; Good! & rdquo; At that time，Neighbors only say，The child has been killed，Her body is complete。

When I see a daughter wrapped in a blue plastic bag，Yang Jianfen knows，The sky has collapsed。

2008，Government notice to lead the child to pension，Yang Jianfen is the last signature person。& ldquo; When I heard my daughter's name at that time，I have been crying，I don’t want to sign，I don't believe my daughter really left like this。& rdquo;

Because the house has not been severely damaged in the earthquake，So the photos of your daughter during their lifetime，She retains intact。When cleaning up her daughter's relics，Yang Jianfen found a passbook of his daughter，There is a total of 1270 yuan in it。

& ldquo; These are all children who usually save money and save money。& rdquo; Speaking of this，Yang Jianfen's eyes are soaked in tears again。

I miss my daughter，Yang Jianfen put the child's photo from small to large in the bag。What makes her sad is，April 11, 2011，When she is buying vegetables，The bag was stolen by the thief，Mobile phones and photos worth 1480 yuan from her daughter before their birthday are also lost。In order to reply to the photo，Yang Jianfen went to report to the police，Also boarded the finding of things，But the desire to retrieve the loss has never been realized。

Every day to avoid day，Yang Jianfen will write a letter to her daughter，Then rush to the old Beichuan Middle School of tens of kilometers to burn the letter。Now，What makes Yang Jianfen unacceptable is，August 11 last year，Where they bury their daughter's ashes，If you want to give your child a monument, you are rejected。

& ldquo; Adopt & rdquo; Different daughter leaves after leaving，Yang Jianfen started insomnia，Dream of daughter who died in the earthquake every day，The body is getting worse。In 2009，A large number of volunteers come to New Beidawa，Help the victims out of the psychological shadow。With their help，Yang Jianfen slowly got rid of the dependence on the drug。On April 25, this year，Yang Jianfen has also become a volunteer in the Beichuan area of ​​the Chinese Academy of Sciences。

Now，Yang Jianfen is most worried about the husband Fang Yonggui。Fang Yonggui bet365 live casino games suffers from depression after the earthquake，Borrow wine every day to dispel sorrow，Need to be maintained by drugs， 20 yuan a medicine per day，and this money is the 20,000 yuan pension from their daughter。

& ldquo; Every time you go to buy medicine，is my most heartache、When the most sad time，Because it is the money exchanged from the daughter's life，& rdquo; Speaking of this，Yang Jianfen started choking，& ldquo; In these two years，The most contacted by his most contact is wine，Live of life that has been isolated from the world，Temperature also becomes extremely irritable。No before it comes，He is still the manager of a unit，But since the child leaves, it has become like this，I can’t listen to whoever words。& rdquo;

Yang Jianfen and her husband have checked many times，Try to cultivate IVF through medical means，But the doctor's conclusion is: the husband is drinking a lot because of a large amount of alcohol，There is no way to cultivate IVF。

& ldquo; 5 & middot; 12 & rdquo; after the earthquake，The country implements a free IVF policy for the family that loses the child，Each family has two free opportunities。But one -third of the mother is due to her age，It is almost impossible to be a mother anymore。

So，Yang Jianfen has always tried to adopt a girl。& ldquo; It was originally a girl，If you can adopt your daughter，I think the child returned to his side。& rdquo;

For this，Yang Jianfen has been to Santai County Orphanage to try to adopt babies，Many friends introduced them to abandon babies or children who are superb。But，Most of these，If it was not a baby boy，Either the body is a bit disabled。

& ldquo; As long as I am less than 60，I will not give up adopting a baby girl。& rdquo; Yang Jianfen said。

But Yang Jianfen's family is far more complicated than what she tells。In terms of adopting children，There has been controversy between her and her husband Fang Yonggui，Between husband and wife, there are often fierce quarrels because of adopting children。

My husband does not agree with Yang Jianfen adopted the child，I don't understand why she must adopt children。& ldquo; None of your biological children may not be able to count on，What about adopted children? & rdquo; Fang Yonggui worried，& ldquo; wait for me to raise her，I am all 80 years old，Do you want to support me，What can I do? & rdquo;

Now，Fang Yonggui can get a minimum guarantee of 180 yuan per month，Yang Jianfen can also get 220 yuan。& ldquo; If I want to adopt children，You can adopt it early to，The key is what is necessary to adopt this child? My own life is a problem，What do I get to support this child? & rdquo; After the daughter Bet365 app download is gone，57 -year -old Fang Yonggui and his wife's attitude towards life are already different。

Like most lost exclusive homes，As the child leaves，The former happy family is full of variables。Fang Yonggui also realized，The relationship between him and his wife is increasingly rigid，Fierce quarrels will occur every few days，& ldquo; Sometimes I still fight，The most powerful one moved the kitchen knife & rdquo;。

Since her daughter was killed，Lack of communication between husband and wife。& ldquo; In the past，When two people have differences, they will consider their daughter's feelings，Sometimes my daughter also persuades in the middle，So I have not quarreled fiercely as it is now before the earthquake，& rdquo; Fang Yonggui concluded，& ldquo; Of course，Another reason is that neither of them can make concessions in adopting children。& rdquo;

Now，Fang Yonggui feels that drinking is less than before，But still taking antidepressant medicine。His biggest expectations for life，It is the age that can be led to social security。& ldquo; When I am 65 years old，You can get a social security of 2,000 yuan per month，She can also get this money at the age of 55，This way our days can be better than。& rdquo;

　　Escape and Holding Group

According to data from the Sichuan Family Planning Department，& ldquo; 5 & middot; 12 & rdquo; There are nearly 8,000 children who have children who died or disabled in the earthquake，Among them, there are more than 6,000 funeral family planning families with fertility willingness。

When quarreling with Fang Yonggui，Yang Jianfen will go to the volunteer base to find someone to talk，Only people who have experienced together，can you experience each other's pain and need。Zhu Xiaohua, who also lost the child in the earthquake, is the listener。

Zhu Xiaohua’s child was killed on the way to school。May 12 pm on May 12，Zhu Xiaohua's mother sent her grandchildren to school，Both of them did not escape doom。

After the child is killed，The bond between her and her husband is also broken。One day after the earthquake，She sent a text message to her husband: & ldquo;，I always feel that I am living in the restraint of your big family，I'm really tired，Let's divorce! & rdquo; The husband couldn't understand her choice at first，But the two people still completed the divorce procedure in the fall of 2008。

Zhu Xiaohua has always been a emotional person，When you are free，She will read some books，I will write some logs in QQ space，Record your own heart journey。In her eyes，The two people have been bet365 best casino games gathered in more than 5 years of marriage，There is not much communication。She even thinks，My husband doesn’t care much about children。

Death to children and mothers，Zhu Xiaohua has been complaining，The reason is that she has proposed to her husband，Two people take their children to Mianyang to do business，But the husband did not agree at the time。She thinks，If the husband listens to her，& ldquo; Neither mother and child will be killed & rdquo;。

Like many parents，After the earthquake，Zhu Xiaohua often insomnia，Always dream of the dead mother and child。Her state is called & ldquo; sequelae of the earthquake & rdquo;。

She went to the hospital many times for treatment，Follow the doctor's instructions to take antidepressant drugs，Also went to the Psychological Assistance Volunteer Base in Beichuan to receive psychological counseling，But none of them。

Living in New County, Beichuan，I did not make Zhu Xiaohua feel that some good changes have happened in their lives，& ldquo; I don’t see the hope of life，On the contrary，More confused，I only feel that life is getting more and more hopeless。& rdquo;

She has been to find a fortune teller three times。& ldquo; I also know that these things are deceiving，But I have always felt ashamed to my mother，She walked too suddenly，If it's sick，What remain the last words will she leave me，I will also know what she is thinking，But suddenly there is no & hellip; & hellip; & rdquo;，Zhu Xiaohua is already crying。

September 2009，Zhu Xiaohua formed a new family with another man，and gave birth to another son in October 2010。In a new family，She can't feel too much warmth。In her opinion，The relationship between husband and wife is a paper contract，For a new child who is already 2 years old，She did not give too much care，Because she misses the 4 -year -old child who is killed in the earthquake，& ldquo; That child is very sensible，I don't need to worry about & hellip; & hellip; & rdquo;

The days from the board to the new county town，Zhu Xiaohua will choose to associate with people who have also been killed in the earthquake，She and Yang Jianfen became friends。

& ldquo; There is a common encounter，You can apply for subsidies to the government together，You can complain together，Sad together。& rdquo; Zhu Xiaohua said，If you are with the people of the normal family，I will encounter misunderstandings and exclusion。& ldquo; See you to remember your family sadly，Some people always can't understand，I even sarcast at you。& rdquo; Zhu Xiaohua said，This is the reason why bet365 live casino games she has few friends now。

Like many survivors，Zhu Xiaohua feels that one of the manifestations of the sequelae of his earthquake is that the feeling of disillusionment is strong，Even family and love cannot be spared。She thinks the world becomes indifferent: & ldquo; After the earthquake，Many survivors who have lost their spouses have remarried in less than half a year。& rdquo;

　　Trauma is difficult to heal

& ldquo; In fact, the beginning of the reconstruction，Government departments at all levels are in the process of material reconstruction，I am also fully repairing the psychological trauma of parents，But the damage caused by the disaster is too great。& rdquo; The staff of Beichuan Propaganda Department told reporters like this。

July 25, 2008，The Standing Committee of the Sichuan Provincial People's Congress reviews and approved the "Decision on the Repentance of a member of a member of a member of a member of the Wenchuan Earthquake"，This stipulates: Tens of thousands of parents who lose their children or parents who have disabled children in the earthquake can raise new lives。In July 2008, the Ministry of Finance and the National Family Planning Commission set up a special family planning and reproduction free service special funding for 100 million yuan，Examination for regeneration、Treatment and surgery medical expenses，Make every effort to help the loss of the exclusive family's regeneration。Sichuan Province has arranged 29 million special work expenses on this basis，Used for regenerative technical services。

other，Location of the disaster area，According to the actual situation of the local area，Give a loved one to death，Families who do not work with the main family members to solve the STD。Take Beichuan as an example，Family members receive 180 yuan to 200 yuan per month for family members。The government also gives a key care to the regeneration of the family who lost independence，As long as you can conceive your child，Check、Treatment and production can be free。

A parent told reporters，She succeeded in giving birth to a test tube baby in Chengdu，The cost generated by the government is borne by the government。But she is just a lucky person，Due to age、Low the success rate of IVFB and other reasons，Family of IVF，Most of them have no wish。As of the end of March last year，& ldquo; 5 & middot; 12 & rdquo; The earthquake -stricken area has 3,761 renewable women's pregnancy，2864 baby health birth，But there are still more than 200 families that have not yet enforced again。

& ldquo; Even if it succeeds，They are already in their Bet365 app download 40s，Old age，Energy、Economic conditions are getting more and more unsuitable，It is not until the age of 60 to care for children，This makes them focus。& rdquo; This parent said。

Parents who are killed students have always believed that the death of the child is both a natural disaster or a human disaster。In their opinion，Campus away from Gaoshan，Stones rolling off from the mountain will not cause the school's teaching building to be hit hard and collapse，Some residential houses around the school are not as serious damage as the school。

In order to find more details of the daughter's death，Yang Jianfen has been looking for the video of the child's last moment at the Public Security Bureau of Mianyang City。She clearly remember，The child looks very peaceful in the picture，Apart from a bruise except on one side of the cheek、Foot breaks outside，The rest of the body is intact and non -destructive。

Video display，Someone pressed on her daughter's body，and she is also pressed on another student，Her face is still red，There is only a little gray on the face。

Yang Jianfen will remember all my life，The number of the video is 10737。