Look at Lu You's marriage and love life from poetry
August 23, 2019 08:31 Source: "Chinese Social Sciences" Journal of Social Sciences, August 23, 2019, Issue 1763 Author: Xu Youfu

Cheng Qianfan's "Ancient Poems" said in the poem of Huang Tingjian's "Play and Answers": "In the Tang Dynasty,Some people use similar words to birds to play to play,Poetry,The so -called poultry poem。In the Song Dynasty,This poem is more popular。”

Song Dynasty poultry poems,The poem of Yin Yong's evil bird screams is the most opposed to feudal etiquette。Ming Renfang has verified the aunt and evil birds with Zhizhi "Tongya",Called "Ru Dove,Black,April Ming,Say bitter,Also known as Aunt,Volkswagen to died with a aunt by the woman "。"Aunt" refers to her mother -in -law。The size of the old society is large,There is an inevitable contradiction between family members,Among them, the contradiction between mother -in -law and mother -in -law is the most common、Most prominent。In the contradiction between mother -in -law and daughter -in -law,Mother -in -law obviously occupies a dominant position,Daughter -in -law is generally in a dominant position。Generally speaking, public opinion tends to condemn her mother -in -law,Sympathy,Bird name "Aunt Evil" also illustrates this。

The views of the wicked poems in the Song Dynasty are different,Someone in order to maintain the feudal social order,Talk for my mother -in -law in the poem,Su Shi "Aunt Evil" Shiyun: "Village South Village North Maihua Lao,I can't cry with my aunt。There are no aunts who do not support anti -grievances,So far for Er Wind Teaching。噫! Although the king is not loyal,Although the father is not a kind of filial piety。"" But,Most poets with progressive ideas are deeply sympathetic to Bet365 app download the little daughter -in -law who suffered from mother -in -law。For example, Su Dongpo wrote a group of poems "Five Bowls",Its five chanting aunts,Self -note: "Auntie,Water Bird also。Vulgar Cloud Woman is abused with aunt,Therefore, its voice cloud。"Fan Chengda also wrote a" Aunt ",Preface: "Auntie,Water poultry,named with its voice。Biography Aunt abuses her woman,Maternal Decision。Dongpo Shiyun: ‘Auntie,Aunt,Aunt is not evil,Destiny thin '‘,This sentence weeping ghost god。Yu Xing 苕霅,I heard its voice,Sorrow day and night。Guest has evil,I thought this must be filial,I wrote "The Poems of the Famous Aunt"。"Fan Chengda expressed his view clearly in the poem:",Woman does not die,It is also difficult to be a woman with a woman,The dead people say this。”

There are 14 poems in Lu You describing the sorrow of the sorrow of the aunts,Such as "Swordson Poetry Draft" Volume 14 "Summer Night Boat,Wen Shui Bird's sound is very sad,Said aunt,Poetry,Use anthropomorphic method,Write a sent to a little daughter -in -law to talk about his tragic fate:

Girls' Tibetan deep girlfriends,Unremuditive Swaning Wall Fan。Although the body is very foolish,Parents are for it。Although the body is very foolish,I also know Jun Guzun。Drop the head of the head of the chicken,Comb with a skirt。Sweeping on the hall,Kitchen in the kitchen。Qingqing picking sunflower,Hate Beauty Bear。Grandma is not happy,Wet tears marks。He Ji Sheng Men,庶 姑 姑 弄。This ambition,Bo Lai Lai。Give up dare not blame。Sadness and loneliness (a "aunt") grace。Ancient Road Pingzawa,Micro rain ghost fire。Jun Listening Aunt Voice,Women's soul。

This poem tells us,This little daughter -in -law Bet365 lotto review who passed the door,Still understand politeness、Grandma's Mother -in -law,People are also very diligent,Chicken barks every time I get up and work,Sprinkle and remove the Court,picking vegetables and cooking again,and also excelble。The main reasons for being detached,I just gave my mother -in -law a grandson。Mencius said, "No filial piety has three,Nothing is the big ";" The Book of Dai Dai "has the" seven go "bar,Article 1 is "Not Parenting Parents",Article 2 is "No Child"。Visible,The feudal system and feudal etiquette are the root causes of the abandonment of Bet365 app download the little daughter -in -law。

People have noticed it a long time,Lu Youyong's aunt's poems are as many and good,This should be related to the tragedy of his marriage between him and his ex -wife Tang's。Ruqing people Yao Fan's "Aid List Temple Notes" Volume 47 said in this poem: "Putting Weng Aunt Poems" The Summer of the Summer Night Smelly Water Birds is very sorrowful,If you say aunt,Poetry "。Put from Weng Chu (Marry) Don,Can't come out。Weng Mi Nian's "Shen's Garden" poem so also works。Weng Yi may not feel this,However, it is not suitable for propositions。"Yao Fan's words are tortuous folding、Dodge flash,It is still revealed that Lu You repeatedly sings and chant the aunt's evil poems。

Song people Zhou Mi talked about in "Qi Dongye" in "Put the Weng Love Our Room": ",The daughter of 闳,Yu's mother -in -law is the aunt and nephew;。Both out and not tolerated,,From time to time。Gezhi and cover it,Although the Prophet 挈,But it must not be hidden,Absolutely。The change of people also。The Tang Dynasty changed to the county Zongzi (Zhao) Shi Cheng。Taste the spring travel,Meet the Shen's Garden of the south of Yuji Temple,Tang Yiyu Zhao,Displaying wine,bet365 live casino games Weng's long time,and give the word "钗" in the question of the wall。"This time Lu You met his ex -wife Donald in Shenyuan,In the 25th year of Shaoxing (1155),Tang's depression and death。Soon after,Tang's depression and death。

Zhou secrets are roughly in line with the actual situation,Because of the poems of Luyou as proof。The happy marriage between Lu You and his ex -wife Tang's ending with tragedy,It has caused difficult to heal the wounds of the two sides,So unforgettable for life。Three years of Shaoxi (1192),Luyou 68 years old,Taste of seven rhythms,Title "The Small Garden in the south of Yuji Temple,Taste the question between the small 阕 wall 40 years ago,Occasionally, the garden is easy to master,Carved small 阕 阕,Reading "。China Erlianyun: "Lin Ting feels the old empty look back,Who says the intestines? Bad Wall Drunk Dust Dust Momo,Broken Yunyou Dream。"Five years of Qingyuan (1199),Luyou 75 years old。His old re -travel,I wrote two songs in "Shenyuan",The second cloud: "Dream broken incense for forty years,Shen Yuan Liu Lao does not blow cotton。This body is made of Jishan soil,The remains of still hanging are yam。"40 years ago,Lu You is only 35 years old,Tang's has died,When I died, I was young。In the first year of Kaixi (1205),Luyou 81 years old,Research "December 2nd Night Dream Tour Shen's Garden Pavilion" two songs,The second cloud: "Xiaomo in the south of the city and every spring,I saw the plum blossoms not seen。Jade Bone Jiu Chengquan Lower,Ink marks still locked the dust between the wall。"In the first year of Jiading (1208),Luyou 84 years old,As a "Spring Tour" seven must -have four songs,Its Siyun: "The flowers in the family are like a brocade,Half was the Bet365 app download Weng of the year。You also believe in the beauty of the beautiful man,Unbearable dreams are too hurried。"In winter,Lu You died。Visible,Lu You is unforgettable for the tragedy of marriage with his ex -wife、No toothless。

So,Lu You's repeated chanting aunt is really closely related to his marriage tragedy? The answer is yes。It is particularly worth noting that the two years of Kaixi,Luyou 82 years old,I also wrote a song "Night Wear Aunt": "Learning Tao should be light,Poor power and unforgettable love。Sorrows Suddenly Suddenly Inleumed,Wind and Rain Creek head aunt's evil voice。"On the night of wind and rain,He heard the sorrow of the sorrow again,Those unforgettable pasts can once again restrained the heart。He wants to let go of the twilight years, but it is obviously that he and his ex -wife Don's are extremely happy,but extremely short、Extremely tragic marriage。This tragedy is obviously caused by his mother。

Lu You also subtlely expressed his dissatisfaction with his mother in the poem。Three characters "East Wind" on the song "The Phoenix"。The Tang Dynasty Wang Jian's "Spring Song" has two poems: "Just one night in the middle of the wind,Get the red and purple。"The poet is described as the image of" Dongfeng "as the image of the spring flower destroyer,So it is called "evil"。The "Dongfeng" in Luyou's words obviously metaphorize his mother。Ancient intellectuals pay special attention to filial piety,Son secretly claimed that the mother "evil" is very rare,When the love of the mother and child and the love of husband and wife love,Lu You succumb to mother in morality,Emotionally tended to his wife。Because his mother is actually a representative of feudal etiquette,So the word "evil" shows his resentment Bet365 app download of his mother forcibly dismantling his happy marriage,It also shows his complaint on feudal etiquette。The meaning of "East Wind Evil" in Luyou Words and the meaning of "aunt" in their poems is in the same vein,The ideological significance is also similar。

Liu Kezhuang's "Houcun Poetry" sequel volume 2 talked about the reason for Tang's deportation: "Put of Weng Shao,The Second Teacher's Governor is very strict。First Marriage Moto,伉 得,Two relatives may not be inertia in learning,Disposter Women。Fang Weng dare not reverse the sense of the His Holiness,and Woman Jue。"" This statement is quite reasonable,Fourteen years of Chunxi (1187),Luyou 63 years old,Zeng Qi Qiang two firsts,Title "Twenty of the Year of the Year,Taste as "Chrysanthemum Pillow" poem,Quite passed to people,This autumn pillow pillow sac,Sentences "。Its cloud: "Picks yellow flowers as pillow sac,Qu Ping is deeply incense。Calling 43 years of dream,The lights are dark and no one talks about the intestines。"Husband and wife made chrysanthemum pillows is a detail of life for their newly married。Visible,The newlywed life at that time was still very sweet、Pretty romantic,and resort to poetry,It also produced a large social response。

Lu You was born in Shuxiangmen No. 1、Officials and officials,Parents pay special attention to his career.。In their opinion,Lu You just entered Beijing to take the imperial examination shortly,Just addicted to the joy of the wedding,It will affect the future of the son,I will impose responsibilities on my daughter -in -law。In addition,From Luyou "Xia Yezhou,Wen Shui Bird's sound is very sad,Said aunt,Poetry "can be known,The sided little daughter -in -law is not at fault,The main reason is that you have not given birth bet365 best casino games to your mother -in -law。Donfare failed to give birth to a grandson for her mother -in -law after marriage,Obviously, it is also one of the important reasons she has suffered。

The happy marriage between Lu You and Tang's was dismantled by Lu Mother,Tang's even ended his youthful and beautiful life,Lu You is also unforgettable for their marriage tragedy,As a result, constantly writing poems,A strong condemnation and complaint for feudal rituals represented by his mother。Where,His bitter poem,It is also particularly worthy of our attention。

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