January 2022，"Family Education Promotion Law" is officially implemented，This is the first time in my country to legislate for family education，It is also a milestone in the Chinese family education industry。The 20th National Congress of the Party pointed out，To "improve the school's family social education mechanism", "promote Chinese traditional virtue，Strengthen the construction of family tutoring family style，Strengthen and improve the ideological and moral construction of minors "。This will further attract people's attention and attention to family education。

 

Family education is the first education that every child is in your life，For children's worldview、Outlook on Life、The establishment of values ​​has a profound and long -lasting effect。The new era also puts forward unprecedented standards and requirements for parents' educational literacy。Parents should realize，I am not only educating my own children，It is also cultivating excellent talents for the country。For how to do a good job of family education、How to make family education play its should have functions bet365 live casino games and other problems，Researchers have conducted many discussions based on different angles，It plays a certain guidance and promotion role for family education。This article is based on parents' own growth angle，Put forward a family education SDS model。

 

First is the system (systemic)。Since the 18th National Congress of the Communist Party of China，General Secretary Xi Jinping repeatedly talked about "paying attention to family、Focus on tutoring、Pay attention to family wind "，Emphasizing "the future fate of the family is closely connected with the future and fate of the country and the nation"。and husband and wife get along、The family atmosphere is the micro -realistic and realistic part of the family style。A communication between husband and wife、getting along with each other and the family atmosphere created，It has a great impact on children。Psychology pays special attention to family education methods in the research of people、Family atmosphere、Family atmosphere、Factors such as family capital，And these factors can be quantified，For scientific research。

Common Fate Model，CFM)、Systemic Transactional Model，STM), etc.，Emphasize the dual or binary interaction of the husband and wife、Dynamic interaction process，Think that it is necessary bet365 Play online games to study from the system level rather than the individual level，The basic assumption is，Cognition of an individual、Emotion and behavior will affect another individual，Finally, this dynamic interaction system is in contact with other factors。If the couple's combined dual response (Dyadic Coping，DC) Process，Cognition of pressure、The corresponding emotions generated and specific coping methods are the process of interacting with each other。

 

Therefore，Whether it is family style construction or family atmosphere、Create of the family environment，All processes based on dynamic interaction between husband and wife，gradually formed in daily life in the day after day。The family is not static，The individual is not independent。The way of husband and wife in daily life is nothing more than the following: adjustment cognition、Management emotion、Active communication、Active communication。As the book "Cai Gen Tan" states: "Has the family has had，It is not advisable to abandon，It is not advisable to abandon。This is difficult to say，Ironically sarcastic; I don’t realize it today，俟 俟。such as spring breeze thaw，Ruqi to eliminate ice，is the family style of the family。”

 

The second is the growth (dueopopment)。"National Family Education Status bet365 best casino games Survey Report (2018)" shows，"A warm home" is ranked first in the most important thing of the life that students think。The top three of the most respectful examples of the fourth grade primary school students are "parents", "teacher" and "scientists" in turn; the first three of the most respect for middle school students in the eighth grade are "parents", "film and television singer or sports star" in order. And "Historical Celebrities or Cultural Celebrities"。The survey covers 31 provinces in the country (autonomous region、Municipality directly under the Central Government) and Xinjiang Production and Construction Corps 325 districts and counties，Covering more than 110,000 students in fourth grade、More than 70,000 students in the eighth grade、Class teacher more than 30,000 people。

 

Example Education is a very important content in the field of moral education，Psychologist Ban Dura has conducted classic studies on this problem。Parents are the first teacher of the child，The importance of the role of parental example is beyond doubt。As Tolstoy said: "All education，or 999 educational education all comes back to the example，Between the parents' own correctness and improvement。”

 

As parents，Not only must "perform well"，Also grow and develop，Keep self -realization。The habit Bet365 lotto review of parents show、The achievements obtained、The spirit embodied，All will have a direct and far -reaching impact on children。Parents' Words and Education，Can provide children with good exemplary role and rich learning resources。Research on example education believes，The type of example education should keep up with the times，In addition to shaping the hard type、Forgotten type、Practical models outside，It also needs to shape the innovative type、Leading type、International types such as international types。What kind of example does this have inspiration for parents to become。

 

Third is sensitivity。Sun Yunxiao, vice president of the Chinese Family Education Society, believes，All the mission of children's education can be summarized as "Discover children、Liberation children、Develop children 12 words。Earlier discovering the potential and advantage of children，It is a special and sacred mission of parents。Published in the journal of "Children's Psychology and Psychiatry" in 2021, "A Good Investment: Long -term cost savings of sensitive parenting in childhood"，Sensitive、Parents who respond quickly，Especially in early childhood，Not only is it directly related to children's psychology and physical health，and will bring bet365 best casino games economic benefits to family and society。Sensitive type (or reaction type) nurturing method refers to the needs of parents for their children、Signal for risk、Has higher sensitivity and reaction ability to pain。Domestic scholar mulberry pointed out，Sensitivity refers to the keen perception of parents' signals of children's demand，If the child needs your attention and help, you can quickly realize it; reactivity refers to the proper information of the parents according to the needs of the child's needs。Early nurturing quality can predict about ten years with health、Financial costs related to education and welfare。That is to say，Bad early raising method is likely to bring a lot of adverse effects。Psychology、Education、Medicine and other fields of sensitivity to parents, especially the sensitivity of mothers, are more concerned about this。

 

Family education requires family、School、Society and other forces to promote together。Business Family，perfect self，Make sensitive parents，It is the contribution made by every parent to family education at a specific and micro level。

 

(Author Unit: School of Education and Science, Quanzhou Teachers College、Fujian Family Education Research Test Base)