French contemporary thinker、Sociologist Eva Illouz's "Cold Intimacies" Chinese translation was published in April 2023，Holding in your hand, there is a very excited feeling。I have written a special article before, "Number Intimacy: Love or Pain?" ——The critical reflection between philosophy and politics "combed the concept of" intimacy "in detail in the contemporary Western theory，At the end, I mentioned the three books "Cold and intimacy" and "Saving Modern Soul" "、"Love，Why hurt? "(Why love harts)。I read out of the clues of deeply revealed，I also gained a strong "empathy"。Especially in "Love，Why hurt? 》 This popular work，The emphasis on the negative dimension of the intimacy relationship of Ilos brings me a very profound impact，It also allows me。If you look along this context，"Cold and intimacy", although the earliest works that have been published earlier, have also explained in terms of negative emotional and experience，but not very prominent、Obvious。Careful comparison，The insights and insights in this book seem to be a little different from her subsequent masterpieces。But the opportunity to publish this Chinese translation，I still thought of a lot of related points that can be expanded when I re -thought deeply，May wish to share it with you。These points may have surpassed the book of the book of Elos，But this kind of raw nature towards different dimensions may also be its important charm。The content of the book is not described here，Only three points of the discussion here。

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First，It is the eye -catching statement about "emotional capitalism"。Although Ilos himself does not proudly regard it as one of the important theoretical views of the whole book，But in fact its profound theoretical connotation is not as straightforward as literal。Link emotion with capitalism，It really cannot be regarded as the first of Ilos。From Marx to Georg Simmel，Most theorists who have deeply Bet365 app download criticized capitalist society involved this point。Follow the so -called "alienation" emotional experience，Also far more than these classic characters mentioned by Elos。Actually，Novels from Dickens and Balzak，until the 20th century's existentialism philosophy，Emotional is always an important entry of scholars to analyze the survival situation of people in modern society。Not to mention，Talking about this phenomenon of alienation，The criticism of the theorists has long been not only produced and labor，Instead of expanding all aspects of human survival。Jonathan Cricy pointed out in one shot，It is difficult for people to escape in doom in sleep。And Han Bingzhe's perspective based on spiritual politics，The last fortress of lamenting the subjectivity of freedom will also be on the verge of collapse in the digital age。Since alienation is comprehensive、Thorough、weakness to resist or even nowhere to escape，Emotional traps and iron cages are almost destined for fate。

　"Cold"

So，What is the true creative inspiration of emotional capitalism explained by Yilos? This involves the second point，That is exactly the dual meaning of "cold" in the title。On the one hand，"Cold" is indeed a common emotional state of contemporary society。getting colder between people，People are becoming more and more indifferent to the entire society and even the world，Even when people face some major problems, it becomes more and more cold。When we are more indulged in private corners，Facing the screen all day when the screen dispatches my loneliness，How precious love and tenderness are。This looks like，Edward Hopper's classic paintings depicting the capitalist in the capitalist in the capitalist，It seems that today is still a very real portrayal。Technology is progress，Economy is development，Society is changing，But the only thing that seems the same is the getting colder emotion。This does become the theorist again and again、The topic of the attention and performance of literary artists。It seems to talk about the emotional alienation of the capitalist society，Indifferent、Lonely、Freedom、Bet365 lotto review anxiety、alienation ... These descriptions are the default generalization，It seems that these cold emotions are described by the conclusion of the coffin。But the use of the word "cold" in the title of Ilos is exactly to remind the world，The "cold" intimacy of the capitalist society may be a common facts，But if it really comes from theoretically reflection and analysis，Instead, you will find that the depth of the "cold" is hidden under the surface of this "cold"。The dialectics between this "cold" and "hot" may be her unique insight。About this "cold and hot" phenomenon，Yilo Si gave at least triple interpretation，It also corresponds to the three chapters of the book。

The core theme of Chapter 1 is the rationalization of emotion。In addition to the background of Max Weber, which will inevitably involve，In fact, only the clues mentioned in the text of Michel Foucault may be more critical。Foucault in the beginning of "Sexual History" in the epicked exposition，Showing the two positive and opposite directions of people's facing the problem of sex since the Victorian era。On the one hand，Everyone is generally cautious，even talk about "sex" color changes; but on the other hand，If you look at the scope of the entire society，Instead, you can find that a large and complicated stimulus of sexual language and sexual practice、Production。and Yilos' discussion here also has the same wonderful work。Her so -called rationalization is not just a order of social governance，and far from being completely suppressed and exclusive -positive opposite，Ru Foucoo's so -called rules and training powers，It often controls control，To achieve a unified order with open diversified appearances。Emotional rules are also the same，When the capitalist society hopes to apply regulation to emotion, this private corner that has been ignored in the past，Instead, you need to go deep into the details of the emotional activity，Learn many aspects of it，Insight its specific laws，Then it can be effectively proceed to be flexible and changeable.。Once the discussion of Foucault and Ilos is placed together，You can also find the profound complementary bet365 Play online games between the two: the former supplemented the method and vision of the spectrum，The latter provides an important social training field for the former。Actually，From the perspective of "Cold and Hermore", "Regulations and Punishment"，It is not difficult to form such an impression: May，Therefore, it can guide power to enter the depths of the human heart; because it is micro，Therefore, the operation of power can be implemented to every detail; because it is changing，Therefore, the ideal form of the so -called "mobile monitoring" can be continuously realized。

"Structure"

It is the rationalization and training of emotions，Continuously "fieryly" produced various words -the operation of power under the appearance of "cold"，But this is far from all the problem。When Ilos then talked about psychoanalysis and contemporary emotional therapy cultural phenomenon，She seems to be related to another important theoretical clue，That is the "structured" of Anthony Giddens, or even Pierre Bourdieu's "practical sense" and physical "habit"。Actually，Gadenz is in the foundation of the foundation of "The Change of the Inopic Relationship"，Strictly criticized the right to make rules on Foucault's nearly "unidirectional"，I believe that this is largely ignored or even ignored the subject's own ability and freedom。Even if the training power is pervasive、Multi -end changes，Can't prove that people can only bow their first ears in front of it、Letting the mercy。Just opposite，"Structured" is to resolve the gap between the macro power structure and the micro individual life，To reveal a theme deliberately avoided by Foucault (at least in the "Training and Punishment"): People produced by the structure，But he is also the producer of the structure。When he produces the structure in his unique life and specific situations，Then it has largely "transformed the structure as its own use"，Gradually transform the production of power into his production and shaping of his own。Although Ilos almost did not mention the theoretical resources involved in the second chapter in the second chapter，But her interpretation work is not the same as bet365 Play online games these predecessors。This is also the reason why she poured in and ink、Talking about the reasons for the so -called "healing narrative"。The narrative itself is macro and micro、Language and words、Anti -interaction between structure and behavior。Narrative must rely on the language system and specifications of social passage，But at the same time, it is destined to be connected with the emotional life of the individual as a person。When I talk about my own joy and sorrow，When I want to talk to others with such an emotional narrative，I am no longer just a passive power puppet，and gradually become positive expressionists、Active actors and even free creators。Of course，As an important part of the contemporary healing culture，Those seemingly true and self -autobiographical narratives may often fall into the trap of the consumer society，Even the powerful assistant to become emotional rules。But no matter what，In this "structured" "practice" process，The individual still has a "sensation"，Self is always moving "love"。Since this is the case，So reshape the subjectivity in an emotional way, there is still a front -line hope，No matter what is slim。

But，When I read Chapter 3，Perhaps this slim hoping has gradually broken。When all emotional alienation、Emotional Training、Emotional therapy is involved in the virtual space in a brain -brainwide way，When the emotional bond between people is almost turned into digital intimacy,，How many true "love" and "sensation" can be left in the heart，How much freedom and action can be left for us to choose? How much ridiculous is，Many readers take it for granted that "Cold and intimacy" as "the guidelines for love in the Internet era"，This is almost ridiculous。It is undeniable，How to seek true love in the virtual world，This must also be the key point in Iloswen，But as an extremely profound and keen theorist，What she reads under the appearance of online society is even more spiritual difficulties and philosophy problems。Careful readers are not difficult to have such an impression，The interpretation of the third chapter of the book is not all critical，bet365 Play online games But the position is quite blurred。Yilos really feels keenly or even feels all kinds of symptoms in the intimacy，But at least in the stage of writing this book，She has not found a more clear response way of rejection of the pain of negative herself。but but，Even if there are these shortcomings，In the last chapter, it still contains at least one important revelation，That's a prompt for the point of "sinceRity"。

Indeed，Nancy Baym and other scholars who are relatively optimistic about digital exchanges，Network space actually provides unprecedented rich opportunities and open possibilities for interpersonal intimate relationships。In network space，The various artificial obstructions and obstacles in real life gradually disintegrate，Perhaps people can achieve more free and free spiritual communication between people。But even so，Bayeum itself is difficult to avoid sincerity. This may be the most difficult problem: in the network，How to determine that the other party is not lying、Deception、Camouflage? If you don't have sincerity，So will there be a real close relationship? Of course, Ilos is also clear and soberly aware of this problem，And her response is quite clear -that is the important foundation of the body's life in the world。In daily life，In the face -to -face communication，Judgment of sincerity always has the simplest and direct way -that is to watch each other's eyes。Even if you do not show up, "Eye is the window of the soul", this too mysterious proposition，But at least people’s facial expressions are difficult to lie，This is also an indisputable fact。

So，In the virtual space of DISEMBODIMENT，Leaving the background and foundation of the body，Is it true and true into an empty bubble? There may be two different responses to this。First, in the sense of Gilles Deleuze and Nietzsche, the view of truth and truth，No longer only regards it as the essence behind the phenomenon and the original original，It is even regarded as a "false power" that is changing。In this sense，Real and fiction is originally intertwined and conversion，and the Internet can be used as a platform for interpersonal performances that "fake and true and Bet365 lotto review false"。But such a performance will not only fall into the trap of the consumer society，Equipped into a puppet of algorithm control，It will eventually lead to self -disappointment or even empty hole。Perhaps it is precisely in the face of these difficulties，Yilo Si will resolutely decisively turn to the negative experience of pain in subsequent works。In "Cold intimacy"，How much is a negative phenomenon (so -called "confession culture")，But in "Love，Why hurt? "middle，It has become an important dimension for reshaping the subjectivity in the digital age。Such a change，is the real clue that guides us to think of the theoretical insights of Yilo Si。Love and pain，Perhaps the intimate emotion of the real hot and cold blend。

　(Author Unit: School of Political and International Relations of East China Normal University)