The love between nj bet365 and child is human nature，However, there are exceptions to everything，Some mothers and children are strangers to each other，Even life and death。Writers also have this kind of love and hate，But whether it is love or hate，They are all the motivation for writers to create。

French writer Stendhal (1783-1842) loved his beautiful mother，nj bet365 is never married，This is not unrelated to his Oedipus complex。Mother died when nj bet365 was 7 years old，Father remarries a domineering aunt，That’s why Stendhal hated his strict father，I am glad that my father was arrested during the Revolution。Stendhal used more than 100 pen names，Of course it is to avoid book censorship，But also to not use the father’s surname。nj bet365 said that nj bet365 never had any joy in childhood，Describes his youth as a dark mess，Also in his famous works "The Red and the Black" and "The Abbey of Parma"，Write the protagonists Julien and Fabrice as children who have lost their mother's love。

Marcel, the protagonist in Proust's (1871-1922) masterpiece "In Search of Lost Time"，Has a deep affection for his mother: nj bet365 is very spoiled，Mother must kiss him before going to bed，Say good night to him，Read him George Sand's novel "Francois the Outcast"。This is a true portrayal of the writer’s life。September 1905，Proust was deeply stimulated by the death of his mother，Six weeks in hospital，nj bet365 felt that nj bet365 “no longer had any reason to live”。His health deteriorated after that，Insomnia is getting worse，In order to isolate the noise，Had to add cork veneer to the bedroom walls。There is a lot of description of homosexuality in "In Search of Lost Time"，And Marcel’s love with women can only lead to bitter consequences，This is inseparable from his mother’s favor which caused his homosexuality。

Sartre (1905-1980) due to the early death of his father，Grandparents treat his mother as a child，nj bet365 is in the novel "The Road to Freedom" and the play "The Fly"，Depicts the close relationship between his mother and him like a brother and sister。Mother remarried Mr. Muncy, a shipyard engineer when nj bet365 was 11 years old，Stepfather is very cold to him，nj bet365 is also incompatible with his stepfather，So nj bet365 always opposed his stepfather。Stepfather wants him to learn mathematics，nj bet365 insists on studying philosophy，Unexpectedly, it was a mistake，Became a world-famous philosopher。

However, there are also many mothers who have brought all kinds of pain to their sons。Balzac (1799-1850)’s mother Charlotte was cold and selfish，Indifferent to him，Don’t even give him pocket money，Later, nj bet365 even had a lover and an illegitimate child。Balzac only met his parents twice during his 6 years in middle school，Never enjoyed the warmth and maternal love of family，So when nj bet365 became an adult, nj bet365 fell in love with women who were much older than him。nj bet365 wrote at the beginning of his autobiographical novel "Lily of the Valley": "When lips suck the bitter milk，When a smile is stopped by a stern and fierce look，Which poet can tell us such pain？I am a newborn，What kind of vanity can I hurt？How unfortunate my body and mind must be，That’s why my mother is so cold to me？”

Valais (1832-1885) was a progressive writer during the Paris Commune，The first volume of his biographical novel "Jacques Ventra", "The Child", begins like this: "Am I nourished by my mother？Did a peasant woman feed me milk?？I know nothing。No matter what kind of milk you eat，I can’t even remember any caresses as a child: I never got a kiss、Touch and pamper，Only whipping is commonplace。”Valles’ parents believe in ignorant education methods，Despite Valles’ diligent study、Frequently wins awards，I am still beaten and abused by my mother every day at home，Abused by teachers at school，Therefore, nj bet365 has developed a rebellious mentality against family and society since childhood，Later grew into a revolutionary and writer。

Jules Renard (1864-1910)’s mother was a devout religious person，Stern and harsh，Like corporal punishment，Lenar grew up under the influence of his parents，Being beaten has become a common occurrence。nj bet365 longs for maternal love，But I didn’t get the slightest warmth from my parents，On the contrary, nj bet365 suffered a lot of grievances and torture。nj bet365 is in the autobiographical novel "Carrot Beards"，Describes the painful experience of childhood in an angry and humorous tone: the protagonist Carrotbeard is a severely abused child，His personality is to make things difficult for his mother every day、Forged from hurtful comments and humble malice，So much so that it became a symbol of suffering children。

Hervé Bazin (1911-1996)’s mother was cruel，My parents left him abroad when nj bet365 was 6 years old，The teachers in middle school also made him depressed，Thus, nj bet365 developed a rebellious character against his mother and teachers since nj bet365 was a child，nj bet365 was even sent to a mental hospital for this。In novels such as "The Snake in the Hand", "The Tree Falls and the Hozen Scatters" and "The Cry of the Owl"，Bazin declares war on family and society，With sharp strokes，Abuse of him as a child、The mother nicknamed "Crazy Pig Woman" went through liquidation。

These rough and cold mothers were punished in their sons’ books，But it also shows that an unfortunate childhood can actually bring out the talent of a writer。In the final analysis，Writers use mothers as characters in their novels，Whether nj bet365 nostalgia or condemnation，They are all making her image eternal，In fact, nj bet365 all in memory of her。

　　(The author is a researcher at the Institute of Foreign Literature, nj bet365 Social Sciences、Former President of the Chinese French Literature Research Association)