Father: Cultivate three college students with a spoon
September 01, 2021 09:23 Source: "China Social Sciences" September 1, 2021, Issue 2242 Author: Liu Mingjiu/Self -described Liu Yujie/Organization

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Liu Mingjiu,Born in 1934,Graduated from Peking University West Language Department,Critics、Translator、Prose Family。Member of the Honorary Department of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences、Researcher at the Institute of Foreign Literature。Former Chairman of the French French Literature Research Association、Honorary President。Mr. Liu Mingjiu compares himself to a reed,He said, "I am just a person who speaks a little bit of grassroots,I just want to write a book、Editing Book,To write a book、Editing Book,I have this connection that I have this connection。In the vast sea of ​​learning,I am just one of the seas; in the long river of history,I am just one of the flashing lights; in the vast time and space,I am just a fast reed ... "The column of" Everyone's Elegant "column will be reproduced one of the" Everyone's Elegant Things "series published by the Social Science Literature Press" Liu Mingjiu -French Literature from France Literature Part of the chapters in the Ferryman,Taste with readers to taste Mr. Liu in the decades of academic and cultural career anecdotes,Learn to bury his head plowing,Everyone in diligence。

As long as there is a stall of tea on the table,My father always uses chopsticks to dip in water to write and draw on the desktop,Sometimes it is practicing Zhengkai,Sometimes Bet365 app download it is a cursive book,Even relatives and friends sitting together to talk about things,He often has to "open a small difference"。From my childhood when I was young,My father is such a image in my heart。

According to the elders,Starting from the city as an apprentice,He developed this habit,For decades like one day,When I remember it,is when he enters middle age,He has already practiced a good word。For this hand word,He is very proud,Listen to him often: "People with high cultural levels watch the feast menu I opened,All say that the words are beautiful,I didn't expect a chef to write so well。”

He was born in poverty farmhouse,Brothers and sisters six people,He ranks fourth。He has only read a book for two months,Put a cow for others since the age of six。Spring and autumn weather in Hunan is not cold,But because he is too thin,When putting the cow, you often rely on the soil slope to avoid the wind and avoid the cold。When he entered the city at the age of eleven, he went to a famous restaurant -Deqing Building is a man of apprentice,His rare hard work and diligence,Boiled "Out of Master",Ending the life of apprentices。First as a cheap labor force in the catering industry for many years,Wandering,Wandering,Some nights,Only one bench as a bed。and then,Gradually make a good dish and write a good word, which is quite famous,Can often hire,Then he married his wife and gave birth to a child。But Drag the children,Family Live,Difficulty。His hard work with oxen -style,In exchange。

The son of this peasant,Labor in this kitchen,Have your own ideals。Although he is outstanding among Bet365 lotto review the bank,But he never thought about training his son to follow him with this line,Actually,As an individual household with a single gang,He urgently need an apprentice in front of him、An assistant,So,He still has a good cooking trick to be taught。He often sighs that his line is miserable,How to suffering,I don’t know、I don't know,But I have indeed seen the body and fat.,One stop in front of the stove in front of the fire is two or three hours,Often sweaty body is like rain。He often touches our head,Sheng said: "Daddy has been suffering for so many years,It is suffering from no culture ... Good 伢,You have to be a reader。”

Being a scholar,This is his ideal and expectations for the next generation。There is no book incense of the descendants on his body,Only that point practice experience。Therefore,Our brothers must obey such a "hard truth"。He often taught us: "Written a good word,That is knocking on the stepping brick,Just looking at the house。"He spent money to buy a pen for us、Ink、砚、paper,There is also a copybook。So,Words become the "daily lesson" for our three kids every day。

Be as a scholar,Of course enter the school。But,Only tuition is the most unbearable。The main difficulty is,To take care of your child to study in a fixed school,Often you have to give up some compatible employment opportunities。

So,Since the three of our brothers reach the age of enrollment,Our school question,It becomes an important major event at home。When my father has a new job or is unemployed and needs to be moved to another city,The best thing to arrange is to bet365 live casino games quickly find a school for us,Let us go to school in time。

Although from the Anti -Japanese War to the beginning of the 1950s,The whole family has always been constantly migrating from east and west, north and south,We have never interrupted academic。And,Every city,Parents do their best,Even exhausted savings,Let us all enter the best local school。

At the end of the 1940s,China is facing a big change of the world,The catering industry is great depression,Father's job in the Mainland is not easy,I went to work in Hong Kong,I did not return home until the mid -1960s。

Those years,I am going through middle school、The process of studying university until I participate in the work。No matter where I am going to school,I have received the academic fees and living expenses sent by my home monthly,I spent no worries about my student days。After graduating from college,My meager salary is far from bears the medical expenses of my mother and the cost of two younger brothers to college,Therefore,Father still stays in Hong Kong,Although he was in his sixties at the time。Write a half -text and half -white for his "Xianmei" who often uses beautiful books、Mid -pass,But the "family book" full of emotional colors,Self -proclaimed "Fool Brother Du", "No Culture since I was a child","Drink and hatred for a lifetime", "Fortunately, I have learned a craft", "I can finally eat myself", "See the third child growing up,It is expected to become useful to the society,Although he is a laborers outside,Frequent contempt and white eyes,I feel deeply pleased "Yunyun。Sometimes,Also bet365 live casino games talk about some principles,What can I say "I can make a few money,Family Live,Let your child go to school ",can also "reduce the burden on the country,Cultivate cultural people with culture for the society ",Therefore, "Highlight",, etc.。These family letters are the "textbooks" that my mother used to "ideological education" for three sons,Often requires us to read it carefully from beginning to end。At that time,We are not impatient to read,Think back later,These family books have a profound impact on us、for a long time。

Of course,This old wage earner often sent back more than his lengthy "chant sigh",From time to time, some daily necessities and stationery,If you give him "Xianmei" socks、Scarf,Give the son's pen and high -quality notebook,, etc.。In "Three Years Difficulties",often send some foods to go home regularly,From Ahua Tian、Danish biscuits、white sugar,to sausage、Luttering ... These continuous supply of supply makes none of our mother and son in that "hunger era" that popular "puffiness"。Among them, far away in the north,After receiving this kind of food supply,Often return to the dormitory to enjoy it secretly。

What is his father's life outside in those years? For a long time,He always said in the "Ping An Family Book" that he is "everything is good", "family members can rest assured",My family is doubtful about this,It is determined that his life must be hard,Therefore,Always persuade him to retire home。But he still insists on,Finally promised to wait for his youngest son to graduate,His "completed the biggest bet365 live casino games task of life",must come back to reunite with your family。Cultivate three college students,This is his greatest life ideal。Seeing that he is getting closer to "Merit Merit",Everyone is waiting for the arrival of this day。

Graduation of my younger brother is getting close to。Sudden,For a few months,My father was interrupted with the family,No news,The family is anxious。After a while,He finally came to a "Ping An Family Letter",Tell the family a frightened late news: he fell down during labor,A thigh was fractured on the cement floor,Fortunately, the public charity hospital in Hong Kong collected him as an "no relative" unemployed old man,Give him a big surgery for free,An iron plate was installed on the broken leg bone、Two iron nails。After a few months of healing,Finally healing,I can walk by myself。Although it is not as good as before,But you can be discharged soon after you can be discharged,Return to your own "the hometown of the day and night",Reunion with your family。There is no sentimental emotion in his letter,It means that I am glad to be able to live in that spacious and bright hospital,That is his "the best house in your life"。I remember a photo in the letter,On the photo,Sit on a white bed in the inpatient suit,The naive and cheerful smile on the face is like a child ...

Start from this matter,His long -term unknown、The living state of "Guts the Teeth",Only gradually emerged。

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1975 summer,He died because of his emergency,The family sighs that he only enjoyed Qingfu after returning to his hometown,This is really disapproval with Bet365 lotto review the hardships of his life。After the funeral,One piece of iron plate in the ashes、Two iron nails,The younger brother collects them as a memorial,This is his mind as a young son。It has been a few years since the death of the younger brother,Whenever I think of this,I am sour in my heart ...

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