In the process of building a socialist harmonious society，Morality always plays a vital role。According to Mr. Fei Xiaotong’s opinion，In the traditional sense，Chinese society is in an "acquaintance society"。In this so-called "acquaintance society"，Every individual is a bet365 offers supervisor relative to others，Individuals are more conducive to forming bet365 offers self-discipline。However, with the development and changes of society，Chinese society is transforming from a “society of acquaintances” in the traditional sense to a “society of strangers”。In this so-called "stranger society"，The originally narrow life circle of the individual is gradually being opened up、The impact of urbanization and networking，The relationship between people becomes indifferent。The bet365 offers responsibility between people does not increase with it，On the contrary, there is a phenomenon of diffusion and shirk，Lack of powerful “bet365 offers police” and bet365 offers defenders，The individual’s self-bet365 offers judgment and defense spirit cannot be effectively stimulated。

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　(Author’s unit: Teacher Education College of Huzhou Normal University)